Live with more joy

Stop being stuck in a funk and start to make progress

Sometimes we get ourselves stuck in a funk and totally distracted when life doesn’t seem to flow as easily as we’d like. So in order to change that, we need to flip the funk so that we can see what’s on the other side.

If you are affected by adoption then you landed here for a reason and I’m so happy you did. I’m adopted too so I totally understand what you’re going through.

I’m here to tell you that in this fast-paced crazy world, you don’t have to remain in a funk and feel stressed out or frustrated with life and your adoption story.

You do not have to live wondering if life could be better or easier.

If you are affected by adoption then you can act now to change how you feel and I’d love to assist you.  I’ll help you become the best version of yourself possible. 

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I’m going to hazard a guess that you are here for at least one of the following reasons:

  • You feel lost and powerless to change things in your life.
  • You find relationships hard and believe you’re unlovable.
  • You’re about to search for your bio family and are totally freaking about it.
  • Your negative emotions seem to take control.
  • Your whole life seems to be affected by adoption.
  • You tell yourself some really hurtful things.
  • You try and people please and it makes you feel like shit.
  • You feel that your adoption story defines who you are as a person. 

You may have your own reasons too I’m sure, whatever they are, I’d love to work with you to change from the inside out. 

I really must emphasise to never settle for less than you can be.


Because settling for less paralyses – and even totally wipes out – your dreams and desires.  It means that the biggest driver in your life is fear. Fear of the unknown, fear of the ‘what if?’. 

Fear can be the total undoing of you. 

 But did you know that you are your own secret weapon? You can either carry on living a lacklustre life ruled by fear …. OR you can pull the goddamn trigger and catapult yourself forward to something amazing!

How I Can Help You.


This is an opportunity for you to become your own secret weapon and flip the funk you are in. 

There is no ‘one size fits all’ approach as no two adoption stories  are the same, so I offer a range of flexible options which are tailored to your needs. 

If you are affected by adoption then I’d love to help you ‘flip the funk’ so that you…

• Cultivate your curiosity for life. 

• Are catapulted on a journey through life with a new sense of excitement. 

• Feel happier and more content with who you are. 

• Learn to express your adoption story from a place of love rather than fear.

• Become more aware of your triggers and can manage them. 

• Practise more self awareness as you step beyond your self-imposed limitations.

• Learn how to switch off the negative chatter in your mind.

• Recognise that you, above all others, deserve your own love. 

One to One Coaching

An immersion call (between 1-4hrs) where we get to heart of the matter. Followed by 3 months 1-2-1 coaching

Email Coaching

A more relaxed approach with time to consider and process things.
A flexible and affordable answer for the super busy adoptee .

Laser Coaching

Sign up for 6 months of unlimited 15 minutes coaching sessions. Perfect for adoptees under a time-crunch. Lets nail it together.